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the child molestation prevention plan

by BUBBLES back on dial up
Published Jul. 19, 2008

"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it's the only thing that ever has." Margaret Mead

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Child Molestation and Public Health

Is child molestation a public health problem? It qualifies on two counts: damage to health and numbers of victims. Sexually abusing a child endangers that child's physical and emotional health. And, unfortunately, the number of victimized children is in the millions.

In the history of the world, only one strategy has worked to conquer a public health problem: Focus on the cause.

That's the Child Molestation Prevention Plan's Step Two. What health professionals have always done that worked is to first find out what causes the disease or disorder. Then, they work to devise something - a vaccine, a therapy, a medication, a nutritional change - that will stop that cause.

Child sexual abuse has four broad categories of cause. Here again, we follow a well-known and successful strategy: Save the greatest number of victims in the shortest possible time. To do this, we ask the classic medical question: Which one cause, if we could eliminate it tomorrow, would drastically reduce the number of victims? Here we are lucky, because the cause that leads to 95 percent of the sex acts against our children has already been discovered: an ongoing sex drive directed toward children. If we could stop our older children, the ones who live ordinary lives in ordinary families, from developing this disorder, the number of child victims would plummet.

The Child Molestation Prevention Plan's Step One - Telling Others the Facts - is equally proven and equally important. Once medical professionals know what causes a disease or disorder, once they single out the major cause, the next question is: How do we get people to do what is needed to rid our country of this problem? How will they learn the facts? How can we convince them to act on the facts? And at what speed?

We know that preventing child sexual abuse will be difficult because it demands that all of us talk about child sexual abuse to friends and relatives who may know none of the facts but may already have their minds set in concrete. Convinced they know all they need to know, they may have decided they don't want to hear anything about child molestation.

So that is our challenge. Can you learn the important facts presented on these pages and can you tell them to your family, friends, and people in your community? By doing so you will increase public awareness of the solution to child sexual abuse and be part of creating a sexual abuse free environment for all of the children in your family, neighborhood, and community

 A Fact

Today, at least two out of every ten little girls and at least one out of every ten little boys are victims of a sexual abuser. That can change. We now have the power to stop the abusers who commit 95 percent of the sex acts against our children. We know who this abuser is, where to find him (or her), which children are most at risk, and how to protect them.

Your Opportunity To Save Children

"The Child Molestation Prevention Plan" explains the basic facts about child sexual abuse and presents a plan to protect children from molestation. In it you will learn:

  • the definitions of child molester and child molestation;
  • the damage caused by child sexual abuse;
  • the characteristics of a child molester;
  • the four general causes of child sexual abuse and the one cause responsible for 95 percent of all acts;
  • how to identify and treat the single greatest cause early - before there is a victim;
  • why The Child Molestation Prevention Plan will work.

The Child Molestation Prevention Plan

1. Tell others the facts.

Tell your family and friends:

  • The abusers who commit 95 percent of the sex acts against children are driven by an ongoing sex drive directed toward children.
  • We can identify the development of this disorder early - during the teenage years and even younger.
  • Some people with an ongoing sex drive directed toward children are not yet child molesters because they've never acted on their disorder.
  • We can drastically reduce most child sexual abuse by following a three-step plan that's been proven successful in conquering other public health problems.
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2. Focus on the cause: an ongoing sex drive directed toward children.

  • We can place abusers into four groups separated by what causes them to sexually abuse a child.
  • Of the four general causes of child molestation, the one that leads to the greatest number of victims is the disorder that involves an ongoing sex drive directed toward children.
  • By focusing prevention efforts on the single greatest cause of child sexual abuse, we can protect the greatest number of children in the shortest amount of time.
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3. Act: diagnose early. Use tests, medicines, and sex-specific therapies.

  • An ongoing sex drive directed toward children can be diagnosed by a sex-specific specialist. These specialists use objective tests, medicines, and specialized cognitive-behavioral therapy techniques that directly reduce or extinguish a sex drive directed toward children.
    More...

 

LINKS TO MY RECENT BLOGS: 

MEGAN'S LAW 

NC MEGAN'S LAW AND VICTIMS RIGHTS  

sexual offensives involving children; cheat sheet

number of offenders per nc county



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Oh, and I think it's an excellent post myself, and I take great exception to you just assuming out of the blue that somehow I think it's wrong or bad or erroneous or problematic. If the focus from way back in 1994 was on real ways to prevent crime backed by scientifically valid studies on why the crimes occur in the first place, things would surely be handled differently today. The problem is that Klaas, Wetterling, Kanka, and Lunsford are not general scientific studies on sex crimes as a whole; they're at best case studies of one incident involving a very small group of people that is unrepresentative of the population as a whole. I love a lot of the stuff that's said in this blog post, and I think it will inspire its readers to think about prevention a little more than they may have been before, but let's not confuse other things I've said with my opinion on this blog post, okay? They're not the same thing. Thanks in advance for your understanding.

A request I have ignored? When was the last time you checked your E-mail?! I replied to you at 10:15 this morning. I just re-forwarded the message to you again in case you don't believe me. Call me up, RIGHT NOW. Feel free! I'm not going anywhere, but how my voice proves my identity, I do not know. As for your other comments, the problem with your argument is that you almost never can prove a negative. If a crime is unreported, how the heck are they getting the stats on such a crime being unreported? A catch-22 if ever there was one, no? You can't operate on a string of "what if?" questions like that. This is why I only trust studies on actual known crimes that are published and subjected to easily accessible peer review, not casual questions about how many crimes go unreported that contain facts which are not easily verified. If you start with one minor "maybe," and extrapolate your bigger stats and info from that, it morphs into a huge error and invalidates itself.

exceptional blog, i appreciate all the hard work and research you did for this 3 day series.

Jody:

I have ask for your phone number to call you, a request you have ignored. My reason, simply to confirm who you are.

she is not discussing laws the topic is prevention by education and open family discussion and much more. her two previous ones have focused on laws. she lists them quite clearly at the end of her blogs.

i agree we have handled sex crimes poor, we are much too leniant ...i am all for jessica's law. automatic sentencing for first time offenders.

sex offenders rarely change. for the number of reported abuses, how many go unreported? What are the stats on the average number one sex offender victimizes?

this is an excellent blog about prevention and education.

Now, on a positive note, the one sentence where you said "FOCUS ON THE CAUSE" is the absolute best advice in existence, and you should be commended for saying it. The cause is complex, hard to understand and correct, and isn't a concrete "bad guy" that can be punished. That's why we naturally focus on Couey in the Lunsford case: because he's a person that did the bad thing and we can do something bad back to him, whereas the reason Couey did what he did is something that is so much harder to pin down and prevent. The first thing to do is make anonymous treatment available with no penalty to self-aware pedophiles and ephebophiles, so that if they know they have a problem and know they need help, they get it BEFORE they act on the urge. Refining our criminal law to not include a 17-year-old and a 13-year-old in the same high school experimenting is another step to take. And why are non-dangerous people like myself on the Registry in the first place? Whose kids does that protect?

The justice system in this country is broken, and you don't really understand that fact until you're sitting there, listening to the prosecutor tell the judge what a nasty dangerous perverted creep you are and how you may likely rape a child the second you're allowed to go free on bail (never mind the fact that a year passed before your arrest and no children were harmed!) The courts are a tennis court for lawyers and judges these days. It's not about fact-finding, it's not about what is best for everyone involved, it's not about stopping future crimes. It's about who can come out looking the best and how many successful prosecutions can be made. The Bar, the judges, the public defenders, and the prosecutors are all paid by the same entity that is trying to put you behind bars. Mandatory sentences take away any better options that a judge could come up with for handling a specific case. We pretend all crimes are basically the same and assume "one size fits all."

Wonder Bubbles, I feel that the problem many average people face with ANY legal matter is that they never take enough time to understand a subject FULLY, but rather are introduced accidentally in some focused situation of a narrow scope and that experience becomes their entire knowledge of the subject, thus the "predator panic." It is very important to set aside the feelings you have and at least take time to understand the other side of the argument, and if you spend enough time to understand the subject from a variety of different viewpoints, you'll know what is helpful and what is not. Having been dragged through the system and experiencing that other side of the coin, I have a VERY INTIMATE knowledge about it. My biggest regret is that the biggest pushers of sex offender registration (and harsher punishments for crimes in general) may never actually go through pretrial, plea offers, conviction, DNA recording, fingerprinting, registration, harassment...you see where this is going.

In more direct response to the blog post (which I admittedly only skimmed), the major flaw in early detection of potential child sexual abuse is that the law is structured to be black-and-white on the subject: if someone seeks help for their inappropriate sexual urges, they go directly to jail. Treatment to prevent isn't an allowed option. This is the fatal flaw in how we handle potential sex offenders: rather than encourage them to seek help for their problem, we force them to suppress it and keep it secret. They don't get the help they need, and we end up handling more crimes because of it. This isn't applicable to all cases, but we've handled sex crimes so badly in this country that we can't expect much to get better until we stop using our feelings to make decisions about how to handle situations (or who to elect to office). Science is the key: study it, gain an understanding of why it happens, what predominantly triggers it, and use that knowledge to prevent those triggers.

Jody,

What do you think of this blog? Is it more hurtful than helpful?

Dear "blondton13," no offense, but your opinion is irrelevant in light of the facts on the subject. There have been countless studies of sex offenders that were given sex offender treatment programs, and that those treatment programs caused a LARGE drop in sexual reoffense. Also, North Carolina has a required sex offender treatment program that basically consists of seeing (and the offender paying in full for) a licensed psychiatrist until that psychiatrist determines that the offender understands their offense fully, why it is wrong, and how to properly manage any inappropriate sexual desires they may have to prevent another offense. Also, once again, I stress that all sex offenders at one point had NO criminal record, and there are more people out there with no criminal record than there are on the Registry! I respectfully request that you study sensitive topics like this in more depth and with some objectivity before publicly disclosing your interpretations of the subject.

stephba, maybe it would be best if you wrote your own blog, explaining your feelings and knowledge of this.

And since you have more knowledge of this than most, what do YOU think would be HELPFUL.

We need all sorts of feed back here.

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